One of my favorite hobbies is frustrating our critics. It’s not all that hard to do when you know the right buttons to push. Exposing the truth with third party documentation typically does the trick. All that’s required is finding the patients and the time to let the truth bubble up to the surface. But when it does, I write about it and it always gets massive attention and criticism from a few of the better known critics. I just sit back and watch the traffic and the boards light up with excuses, justification, and spin.
By no means do I claim to be a psychologist, (I haven’t been able to find an MLM that will allow me to break into that market yet), but you should know that when someone gets defensive or emotional about a subject there is a level of truth (although most of the time at a subconscious level) that what is being said is true about them or the subject their trying to defend. Nobody, including me, likes to be proven wr…wroo…wrrrrr… (Dang Gummit) Likes to be “mistaken” about their beliefs or their stance on a particular subject. For some unknown reason, there is a belief that if they talk about the way things should be long enough, it will magically create a reality for everyone, including me. That’s why you see idiots posting on blogs every day for the last year, along with a thread on scam.com with well over 10,000 posts just on YTB proclaiming how things are in their own little world.
If they claim it’s true loud enough or long enough somehow that will make it true. Problem with that idea is that it’s like me trying to tell you the sky is purple. No matter how loud or how many times I post that the sky is purple, it doesn’t change the color from blue to purple.
A big reason why I’m talked about and linked to on both sides of the fence is because I provide the truth about our company (YTB) and our industry (MLM). One side of the fence expresses it’s gratitude, while the other side expresses it’s frustration and anger, along with some really obscure illusions about what they “think” our model should be, yet none of these critics have any practical experience in working with MLM’s or Direct Sales.
As a side note: for those of you who want to find out a little more about our critics and why they think the way they do, you really need to read “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind
“. This book totally transformed my thinking and beliefs about myself and gave some incredible insight on why people like our critics have these very strange and dysfunctional beliefs about business, wealth, and money. It was a real eye opener for me. I’ve received a number of comments about a post I did years ago about this book and what it teaches. The question is always asked how anyone can claim to know someones financial blueprint based on what they say. Unless you read the book, (and go to one of his free seminars) you couldn’t possibly realize how simple it is. Today, even I can spot someones financial blueprint based on a few comments in a few posts. (Even if they jump up and down claiming that everything’s peachy.)
All this victim talk about how YTB is ruining “their” reputation and “their” industry is nothing more than a bullhorn that life controls them, not the other way around, and until they shut up, take responsibility for their own actions and their own business, nothings going to change for them. And while they wear the mask of knowledge and arrogance they they know better, under the mask lies fear, anger, resentment, and bitterness that they have no idea how to control or get rid of because they were never taught a better, more productive way to think or act.
Which oddly enough brings me back to point.
Back in December YTB rolled out new “Terms and Conditions” for it’s Travel Store Owners. In the terms and conditions one section was found by our critics, which brought upon an onslaught of e-mails and links sent into the Home Office in Wood River.
3.5 – BLOGS, CHAT ROOMS, SOCIAL NETWORKS, ONLINE AUCTIONS, AND
OTHER ONLINE FORUMS
Travel Site Owners shall not use online blogs, chat rooms, social networks, online auctions
sites, or any other online forum to market, sell, advertise, promote, or discuss YTBTN’S
products or services.
What our critics saw was an opportunity not only to shut this blog down, but anyone who is involved in YTB. This policy hands over the keys to the inmates providing them free reign to do and say as they please. And since our critics have such a huge fondness for my style and comments here, who do you think got most of the attention?
As an alternative, I decided to do the following;
Why not open up a dialog with those who are responsible for making the decision and discuss the pro’s and con’s like an adult?
Now there’s a novel idea! With a couple quick e-mails, a phone call and a trip up to Wood River, a dialog has been opened to review this policy and come up with an alternative that could make both sides of the fence happy. Well, maybe not one side, but you have to realize that nothing other than total destruction will suffice for critics who need to blame others for any issues they have.
You remember my friend “No Moron Here” right? Why do you think he was told in so many words to go pound sand from his employer? Do you think based on what he’s written his employer finds his ideas productive? Does it make his employer money? Do his comments solve anything? Do you think acting like a child brings about respect and admiration? No, but he sure feels better about himself, now that he’s sufficiently cried enough times, deflecting and distracting everyone to take the focus off himself and laying blame on someone or something else which enables him to continue standing on a soapbox that screams “I’m a victim”.
Me, I went in the opposite direction, and decided to take ownership and responsibility to come up with ideas and solutions that were constructive; therefore finding a company, and a business model, that is not only open, but willing to listen to new ideas and alternatives. What’s even more insightful and promising is that this isn’t the only subject that the company was willing to accept ideas and constructive input on. Imagine that? A Company, Founders, and Executives that is willing to admit that they might not have all the answers and is willing to accept new ideas and alternatives from others.
What a concept?!
It’s certainly not what you would expect from a bunch of scam artists that only want to fatten their wallets with your money.
There was however one requirement in order to pull this off. You had to act like adult instead of a child. And for those of us who understand the basics of communication and negotiation now have an inside track to create and produce a company we believe in that will not only solidify their dominance in the industry, but mine as well. A win-win.
I know all about the dark skies looming from the critics and the myths they perpetuate not only concerning the Home Office, but myself. While they’re busy writing and thinking about ways to spin and distract everyone, I get a call from the Home Office to provide input on the Convergentware upgrades we’re experiencing as part of the “Travel Products Steering Committee”.
Not exactly the color our critics have been trying paint the sky now is it? Why do you think my favorite phrase to our critics is “Thanks for sharing”? Sometimes it just better to let them rant and rave about thier own illusions. I have better things to do with my time and energy.
No matter what they do or say, it’s not going to change my blue skies.
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Doug & Ronda Bauknight
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